This is an excerpt from an interesting website :

"The anxiety for gays concerning acceptance, is relayed in their sexual relationships. Always conscious of rejection, gays can be controlling and manipulative, always concerned that their partner will reject and leave them. This concern which is in many cases, a delusion, can come a reality as we believe in it and inadvertently made it happened. Therefore, to have a good relationship, our relationship must be founded on acceptance by god from above. Without this acceptance, we will be too overly demanding of our partner what has been absent from out father on earth and our wrong impression of our Father in heaven."

~ Extract taken from http://www.psa91.com/fathergod.htm

I think its quite true...

In all the experiences that I have and know about the AJ community around me, relationships don't last.
In many cases, doubt, fear, anxiety and self-rejection are the ultimate causes of it.

We fear too much, and thus we demand too much.

For each demand takes a toll on relationships, be it straight or GLBTs.

I guess, I'm a worrisome person. I worry too much.
From his expression to his actions.

But in most cases, there isn't anything wrong in the first place.

haha!

=)

hugglez Dominic
xP